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Title: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: AustenJ on February 17, 2017, 08:56:43 AM
I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt that says:

"I survived a BPD relationship. Crazy, huh?"


Title: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: SuperJew82 on February 17, 2017, 09:26:33 AM
... .and all I got was a T-Shirt and PTSD... .


Title: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: In a bad way on February 17, 2017, 09:38:39 AM
... .and all I got was a T-Shirt and PTSD... .

I just got the PTSD which I've only just realised, maybe I should get a shirt to go with it.


Title: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: SuperJew82 on February 17, 2017, 09:42:28 AM
We should design a T-shirt and use the sale proceeds to cover site cost and maybe a victims fund!


Title: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: Duped 1 on February 17, 2017, 09:44:59 AM
We should design a T-shirt and use the sale proceeds to cover site cost and maybe a victims fund!

LOL I'll buy one!


Title: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: glaciercats on February 17, 2017, 09:49:49 AM
Where do I place my order,


Title: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: AustenJ on February 17, 2017, 09:57:14 AM
The t-shirt you don't want is:

"I survived a BPD relationship and all I got was an STD."


Title: Re: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: SuperJew82 on February 17, 2017, 10:43:39 AM
You joke, but mine gave me chlamydia. **shakes head in shame**


Title: Re: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: AustenJ on February 17, 2017, 10:56:04 AM
Trust me, brother, I am not joking... .

I got tested for everything under the sun after my relationship ended... .she was only 26 but I'm guessing from what she shared with me that she has had over 80 sexual relationships in those approximately 10 years since she was 16... .most of it unprotected sex... .I'm 55 and I've been with maybe 10 women (I don't count the sheep) my whole life... .and I thought I was a whore... .her form of birth control is the morning after pill

It was a very long couple of days waiting for my test results... .I was lucky... .plain and simple


Title: Re: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: SuperJew82 on February 17, 2017, 11:08:43 AM
Funny thing is, is that I take Doxycycline every day for something called Rosacea ... .it's just mild redness when I drink or eat spicey foods... .taking the broadspectrum antibiotic makes it go away. It just so happens to be the first line treatment to a handful of STD's including chlamydia.

So as soon as she implied that I gave it to her... .and was like " whoa, that isn't even medically possible "


Title: Re: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: AustenJ on February 17, 2017, 11:22:49 AM
SuperJew82-

Brother, no need to shake your head in shame... .if we knew then what we know now when we first got involved with our xBPDgfs... .then perhaps we would be ashamed if we still pursued it.  Forgive yourself, brother. I dodged a bullet. We deserve better.


Title: Re: I'm thinking of getting a t-shirt
Post by: Claycrusher on February 17, 2017, 08:20:50 PM
I made one!  I used materials from an office supply chain store to make the heat transfer with my PC.

It reads:  I Survived A BPD Relationship... .(Bold, large font) ... .but all I got was this dumb T-shirt. (below, smaller font)

That was so much fun, I made another.  It is simply the international symbol for "no" overlaid on "BPD".

They're pretty easy to make.  In North America, you can get everything you need to do it from an office supply chain store.

-Claycrusher