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Title: How to get current counselor to consider it might be BPD Post by: kygirl49 on February 23, 2017, 11:53:51 AM I am new to this site and have been researching BPD since my own counselor suggested it could be what my step-daughter who is 15 is experiencing. I decided to go to a counselor to share my concerns about what I was seeing in my step-daughter for the last 3-4 years. Everyone else in the family just called it "her drama" or "just a teen angst" but it seemed much more than that to me. My counselor immediately suggested we look at BPD traits and when we did, I saw nine of the 10 symptoms in my step-daughter, that have been present for a few years. The challenge is that her current counselor and psychiatrist won't look at BPD as a possibility, they say she is too young to be assessed and it is just anxiety. I would say anxiety does not make a child do the things she does. Any suggestions?
Title: Re: How to get current counselor to consider it might be BPD Post by: Naughty Nibbler on February 24, 2017, 12:09:21 AM *hi*
Welcome Kygirl49: Sorry to hear of the problems with your step daughter. They generally wait until age 18 to give a BPD diagnosis. You don't need to wait for a diagnosis to start using strategist skills and communication techniques. The Tools listed in the margin to the right can make a difference. Check them out one at a time and give them a try. What are some of her most disturbing behaviors? Has she learned any coping skills and self soothing techniques from her counselor? |