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Title: Trying to let go Post by: djae on March 03, 2017, 07:10:30 PM Good evening, I've been struggling for quite sometime to completely detach from sig other of 20 + years. He is a recovering alcoholic but also has so many BPD traits. We are not together but he continues to stop by or text.
Title: Re: Trying to let go Post by: roberto516 on March 03, 2017, 07:19:10 PM Welcome djae! You've come to the right place. I can't speak for myself. But everyone here is a real kind hearted soul. What is it that he texts about, or feels the need to visit about?
Title: Re: Trying to let go Post by: djae on March 04, 2017, 08:56:47 AM He usually just texts "good morning" or when he stops by he just asks what I've been up to. I've blocked his cell number and he is now using a different cell phone.
Title: Re: Trying to let go Post by: once removed on March 04, 2017, 09:07:15 AM hi djae, id like to join C<||| roberto516 and say *welcome*
im very sorry for the circumstances that have brought you here, and the loss of your twenty year relationship. i hope that you are being gentle with yourself and taking good care of yourself as you process. nonetheless, i am glad you found us, you are among folks that have walked or are walking in your shoes and understand. it will help us better support you if you can share more of your story with us as you are comfortable. what led to the breakup? did you initiate it? keep posting djae, we are here for you 24/7 |