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Title: She's taking me back (kind of) Post by: Working Out on March 11, 2017, 12:04:04 PM This is an update to my first post https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=307102.0
My expwBPD has decided that her and I can date and in a few months if I have not slipped back into my old habits that contributed to the demise of the r/s then we will be an official couple again. I only know this because her best friend (who happens to be a girl I dated before her) spoke with her last night and texted me this morning. I am reading all I can online and reading walking on eggshells and loving someone with borderline personality disorder so I can learn the skills needed to maintain ba healthy and happy r/s and hopefully life with this amazing woman. The more I read and learn the more I realize how much I invalidated her and let her walk all over me and it just makes me sick to my stomach that I did that to her. Title: Re: She's taking me back (kind of) Post by: PlasticOno on March 11, 2017, 02:04:14 PM Just learn from what you did or said wrong... .and try to break your habit ... .but now I learned to stay in the moment ... .to surf her moods... .study the tools here
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