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Title: I need you to remind me something
Post by: UnforgivenII on March 15, 2017, 11:19:47 AM
Hi guys.
I am headed to my Tai Chi training. You must know that one of my ex's "friends" and his "best friend" and most likely my replacement live near me, like 200 MTS.
I am scared to death to see them hand in hand.

Please remember me It will not work with her either... .


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: hope2727 on March 15, 2017, 11:22:17 AM
The fact that you are so traumatized by seeing the friends is a pretty good indication it will not be healthy for you to try agin. Go centre yourself and focus on you. If you see them channel your inner superhero and stand a bit taller and breath slowly and put a tiny smile on you face and just keep on swimming. Good luck


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: AustenJ on March 15, 2017, 01:08:09 PM
You got this! 

You are powerful!

Kick butt!

I know you!

We are survivors.

 


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: UnforgivenII on March 15, 2017, 03:12:54 PM
You got this! 

You are powerful!

Kick butt!

I know you!

We are survivors.

 

Thank you so much, Complicated 


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: Sadly on March 15, 2017, 04:56:00 PM
It won't work with her either sweetheart, and one day she will be where you are now and you will be way way ahead and free and happy again 
Love from
Sadly x


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: UnforgivenII on March 16, 2017, 03:50:02 AM
It won't work with her either sweetheart, and one day she will be where you are now and you will be way way ahead and free and happy again 
Love from
Sadly x

Thank you sadly. You have been an angel to me. I feel you so near even if I have never seen you. Thank you, you cannot imagine how much you have helped me.


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: Sadly on March 16, 2017, 06:47:21 PM
That's a lovely thing to say, thank you. You also have no idea how much that means to me right now. I feel very lost and coldl and alone and very very unloved and you have made me feel warm. We will get there you and I 
Love from
Sadly x


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: lovenature on March 27, 2017, 10:26:11 PM
Unforgiven, the cycle ALWAYS repeats; without years of therapy, the wonderful turns into a nightmare, just a matter of time.

Hey Sadly, you're not alone on here. You're kind words and poems have helped many, the genuine person you are shows through you're writing.


Title: Re: I need you to remind me something
Post by: hopealways on March 27, 2017, 11:57:22 PM
Unforgiven, the cycle ALWAYS repeats; without years of therapy, the wonderful turns into a nightmare, just a matter of time.

Hey Sadly, you're not alone on here. You're kind words and poems have helped many, the genuine person you are shows through you're writing.
ALWAYS
NO EXCEPTIONS
it is a serious emotional disorder with no cure. Accept that.