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Title: So many quotes support BPD behavior
Post by: canthandlethis on March 30, 2017, 09:10:21 PM
My significant other abuse me with thousands quotes that support his behavior. I mean revenge(which is for no/insignificant mistake),overly love demanding and devaluing others. help.


Title: Re: So many quotes support BPD behavior
Post by: Shane87 on April 02, 2017, 01:30:29 PM
canthandlethis

A person suffering from BPD will find any means possible, real or imagined, to justify their behavior and excuse them from accountability.  My Sweetheart has re-written history multiple times about the same event depending on who she's talking to and the narrative she wants to present at that moment.

Quotes are just one of many tools that can and will be used.  IMO, the best thing you can do is find productive approaches for handling the quotes just as you'll need for handling any other dysregulated behavior.