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Title: Mad at you for loving them. Post by: FantasticMsDox on April 22, 2017, 06:56:12 PM Hey everyone,
I was wondering if anyone has had this experience with their ex or SO. Has your BPD loved one ever got angry at you for continuing to love them? I ask because I was thinking about stuff my ex has done. And I remember years ago when she had told me she "met someone else" she had wrote a letter to me on Tumblr saying how she had never loved me and how she was angry at me that I still loved her dispite everything that she had done to me. Is behavor like this part of the lashing out due to shame? Or perhaps a byproduct of he shame/guilt? Thanks! Title: Re: Mad at you for loving them. Post by: g2outfitter on April 22, 2017, 11:47:28 PM One time my exBPD told me that I scared her. I asked her why. She said, because one time you told me that you would never give up on us.
You would think most people would appreciate that kind of dedication. I think it made her mad that I didn't make it easy for her to leave after I was devalued. |