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Title: new to group Post by: motherrucker on April 24, 2017, 12:06:12 PM Hi, I'm new to this group. I feel tremendous guilt about not reaching out to my aging BPD mother so I thought I'd get a sense of how others have gotten thru the pain. I have gone no contact for a year now as a way to take care of myself and my family. I feel better. My husband and kids understand why I have pulled away. We all get along better lately. Every once in a while I think I should call and offer to help get her around to appointments and such. This time I thought about how she would wail my name and I was triggered into a mess of nerves. I'm so torn.
Title: Re: new to group Post by: Turkish on April 25, 2017, 12:18:46 AM I'm kind of in a similar situation... .guilt and all.
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