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Title: Healthy consistency Post by: tree life on May 05, 2017, 04:23:19 PM Hi All,
I feel there is not chance to keep a healthy level of consistency with the BPD guy I love . Moreover, I am scared he says something cruel to me as he had already done that last time we spoke. That made me feel that fustrated that I decided to go for no contact to protect myself. Now it has been 6 months. On the one hand, I feel brave but at the same time I feeling very sad inside and still having often ideas about what to say to him next time I bump into him or via email. So, the whole scenario makes me feel stupid for secretely love him when it feels pointless. But, how do you improve a relationship with someone with BPD really if it is not possible to discuss about the relevant stuff and be coherent?ยก? |