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Title: Dealing with my own resentment Post by: Yellowbee on May 21, 2017, 07:32:10 PM Hi. I am very frustrated and angry with my partner. I have reached the end of my ability to forgive. I just became aware that all these years of my suffering with this same partner is the result of his BPD. I hope you can empower me
to be whole again. Title: Re: Dealing with my own resentment Post by: Yellowbee on May 22, 2017, 08:20:14 PM I am now dealing with my resentment of my husband telling me off over what seems to be important to him, but if it were me, I would just deal with it. (I am not BPD). He did his usual twisting it all around so it was my fault, accused me of not letting go of the argument (I have now learned that I must remain calm during his horrible anger outbursts-I'm learning as I am reading more about BPD)
But I am so angry with him and his BPD traits that I cannot talk normally to him now that he is his sweet self again. He was unkind to me one to many times over 41 years of marriage. I am so angry and resentful towards him. What do I do? Any suggestions? Yellowbee |