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Title: Another day of criticism and ST Post by: Yellowbee on May 24, 2017, 05:07:49 PM So now we are travelling and I am away from home and of course my h chooses to criticise me. It is very silent here too. I wish I knew what little I know now way back when. The more I read of Walking on Eggshells the closer I get to understanding. I know I am not a trained therapist but knowledge is power and any good reliable knowledge I can get helps me deal and understand. I realize that since I married this BPD I have never really known happiness. He was a big mistake. To put mildly, I am unhappy and very disappointed in myself. Title: Re: Another day of criticism and ST Post by: Nonorway on May 25, 2017, 12:50:24 PM I have been reading Walking on Eggshells too.
I have been trying not to get lost in feeling disappointed with myself. The thing I see with BPD is that it takes our strengths and turns it against us. That is not bad or something to beat ourselves up about. It is just a thing and we can start to look to change it. Hang in there! It will get better. |