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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Survivor1975 on May 28, 2017, 06:14:12 PM



Title: I did it
Post by: Survivor1975 on May 28, 2017, 06:14:12 PM
Thanks to reading these forums and learning about my current situation with my BPD ex, i was able to resist her trying to hook me back in! I simply hit "block" and went on with my day. It took alot, but i did it! I feel much better now


Title: Re: I did it
Post by: roberto516 on May 28, 2017, 09:36:39 PM
Simply put. You're the man! Succeed where others (myself) have failed. Word of caution. Don't underestimate emails, blocked number calls, showing up at the house etc. If she figures out she's blocked this could come. I'd visualize what you would do in each situation to avoid contact and make sure you seek out advice if those types of things happen.


Title: Re: I did it
Post by: Mutt on May 31, 2017, 08:06:59 PM
Hi Survivor1975, 

*welcome*

Nice going! I'd like to join Roberto516 and welcome you to the site. Can you give us a little back story? Is your pwBPD diagnosed? How long were you together? Who broke up with who?