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Title: stop walking on eggsshells Post by: 23Runner on May 28, 2017, 09:01:55 PM I found this book at a garage sale yesterday, ironically after running out of the house to avoid further confrontation with my spouse. While he left for the long weekend, I read about BPD and was shocked how well it described the crazy cycle we have been in.
Title: Re: stop walking on eggsshells Post by: 23Runner on May 28, 2017, 09:07:37 PM ;I am seeking how to find stability and stay in this marriage. How to cope with someone that has all the classic characteristics of BPD ,but chooses to pick fights with me and push me away. Then asks me to stay and tells me how great I am... .that is the cycle we have been in.
Title: Re: stop walking on eggsshells Post by: Meili on June 07, 2017, 10:09:42 PM *welcome*
The push/pull cycle is something that I think almost of us around here have experienced and can relate to. It's hard, painful, and confusing to say the least. I'm glad that you found SWOE and this site. I know that we can provide you with support and help you as you work toward your future. How are things going today? Has he come back from his trip? There are also some very informative articles on this web site - if you click on the home tab it will direct you to the articles - they will give you some good advice on how to cope in a BPD relationship. Keep writing. Tell us your story - it helps you to get it out and it helps others when they see that they are not the only ones suffering. |