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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Smileypants on May 30, 2017, 08:29:03 AM



Title: Bad morning.
Post by: Smileypants on May 30, 2017, 08:29:03 AM
This morning I got screamed at and doors slammed for "keeping him awake for three hours".  The whole house and probably the neighbors could hear.  Maybe he shouldn't have stayed up till 5am the night prior at a party.  Maybe then he wouldn't be so tired. Then he starts yelling that he's not going to work now and he is not going to pay the bills anymore.  Then he said he's not going to work this hard and not get any "affection" (which means sex) and be kept up all night.  And then he said he was now going to only pay half the bills.  (I take care of all the children (5) and work part time).  If I work more, we get less help and he isn't contributing his income which would equal fraud.  Sorry I am not doing that.  I would rather remove him from the premises and work full time and have the freedom to budget and balance my own finances.  He goes through these phases that he wants to play keep away with "his" money.  I already have to play balancing act with bills because he doesn't really understand that they have to be paid every month.  I am really leaning towards having him get the ____ out of my house and life. 


Title: Re: Bad morning.
Post by: ArleighBurke on May 30, 2017, 10:59:10 PM
(I'm sorry I haven't read any of your other posts... .)

Why ARE you with him? We all stay for various reasons. What is yours?