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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Rosey87 on June 08, 2017, 08:53:26 PM



Title: A Question Someone Can Hopefully Give Insight Into
Post by: Rosey87 on June 08, 2017, 08:53:26 PM
Girlfriend and I seperated in March of this year. She still has a lot of my belongings, and I have made mention to her family of trying to get them last month.

They have not replied to me at all about getting my stuff or tried to contact me. Am I reading too much into this? Are they waiting for me to call or text to mention what is going on?

She said a lot of horrible stuff about me. Trying to figure it out in a way. I don't want to bother because I feel just the sound of my name will set her off.


Title: Re: A Question Someone Can Hopefully Give Insight Into
Post by: Turkish on June 09, 2017, 12:58:11 AM
What do you mean by "Are they waiting for me to call or text to mention what is going on?"

You already communicated your desire to get your stuff back, yes? They haven't answered. This might be a legal matter at this point.  Do you need your property, or can you let it go, apart from emotional considerations? Establishing this is the way to move forward in how to proceed.