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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: DearHusband on June 24, 2017, 01:16:51 PM



Title: Sleeping in separate rooms
Post by: DearHusband on June 24, 2017, 01:16:51 PM
How long have people gone sleeping in separate rooms? Been as long as 8 months and currently nearing 3 weeks. She knows I hate this, but when I'm painted black, she says she just can't do it. What has your experience been?


Title: Re: Sleeping in separate rooms
Post by: Turkish on June 25, 2017, 11:00:31 PM
When mine did it,  I found out later she had found someone else. 

In your case,  this sounds like a recurring behavior which doesn't imply cheating.  Maybe she demonstrating her hurt by not sleeping in your bed.  What does she say?


Title: Re: Sleeping in separate rooms
Post by: Mutt on July 05, 2017, 09:33:45 AM
Hi DearHusband,

I would sometimes sleep on the couch for 6 months, this happened a couple of times over 7.5 years.

I was split black like and there was a lot of conflict between her and I.

Are you going through a rocky period? Are you having conflict? Maybe we can help if we get more details.


Title: Re: Sleeping in separate rooms
Post by: eggfry on July 05, 2017, 11:22:58 AM
If I may ask, what caused you to sleep separately?

We opted for separate apartments in the same building after an event. Thought post that it was wise to have some alone space instead of putting two people in a tuna can sized apartment with the only door being a bathroom door.


Title: Re: Sleeping in separate rooms
Post by: Karmajoy on July 05, 2017, 11:46:16 AM
What was the incident that made you no longer be painted black and go back to the bedroom or did you not ever get repainted?