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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD => Topic started by: Peacelovehealing on July 03, 2017, 09:04:06 PM



Title: Mother with BPD
Post by: Peacelovehealing on July 03, 2017, 09:04:06 PM
Hi all,

Definitely need support right now. This is my first post. I've been dealing with a mother with BPD. She is incredibly unhappy and constantly swears at me, demeans me, criticizes me, and screams her head off at me despite being in my mid-20s. I've always wanted to pursue a career to help the world and she hates that. I'm currently in the midst of a huge career shift to go from a corporate job to something that will actually help the world and she won't stop screaming at me about it. I know she is fearful about the cost implications -- but instead of being a rational parent she is calling me intense names, screaming at me nonstop, and demeaning me. Any suggestions? Thanks BPD fam!


Title: Re: Mother with BPD
Post by: Turkish on July 04, 2017, 01:46:10 AM
Do you live together? If so,  I can imagine how much harder boundaries might be to enact.


Title: Re: Mother with BPD
Post by: Onelife2live on July 04, 2017, 07:46:46 PM
Run like hell ?