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Title: Another one ?
Post by: Grissum69 on July 09, 2017, 05:46:14 PM
Hello all, it's been a very long time since I have posted here.  I was on the road to success ,and I was doing great.  Good job , recently bought a house, and will be starting my Masters in Digital Forensics by the end of the year. 

Sadly I write this post with a heavy heart...    I've met someone last year that I fell for very hard for.   Long story short she is diagnosed BPD, and she told me this on our last date.  I was skeptical about and the patterns she was displaying but I didn't take the thought seriously.   I'm ok though and have realized that I can't help her, I can take the experience and learn from it and move on.   I am so glad I have learned a lot about this mental illness and how it effects others.   

I didn't think it could happen again to be honest.  Now I know...      

No worries this was a minor setback and I will get back on the horse and move forward to bigger and better things...  



Title: Re: Another one ?
Post by: ShadowA on July 10, 2017, 03:18:17 AM
Yeah, I consistently seem to note that once you attract one BPD person, It's likely you'll attract another.

I think it's probably the personality types we have that attract BPD and vice versa.