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Title: She is talking to aother guy Post by: Minspain on July 27, 2017, 04:21:17 PM I suppose I need help coping with news from my ex BPD girlfriend today that she is 'talking' with another guy. But I also want to communicate to others that are in a relationship that most of what I have read on BPD relationships is spot on and sometimes , no matter how you try, or how promising things look at times in terms of getting back together, the BPD partner will characteristically destroy things again, even just after stating that they are happy and that the relationship can work. This repeats and gets worse.
My BPD suggested that i disown my baby son from a recent previous relationship, also with a BPD (I know! Title: Re: She is talking to aother guy Post by: Minspain on July 27, 2017, 05:18:12 PM My ex BPD tried to get me to disown my baby son (from a recent previous relationship, also with a BPD!
Title: Re: She is talking to aother guy Post by: Harley Quinn on July 28, 2017, 07:53:35 AM Hi Minspain and Welcome! ,
Whilst I'm sorry that you had to, it's great that you found us. Seems like you're in the right place. What you have experienced is shocking and no doubt painful from reading your post. That is a pretty huge and unreasonable request. How long were you with your exgf and is she diagnosed with BPD? Do you have any other children? If you've not already had a good look around the site at the articles and lessons |---> then I'd encourage you to do so. One article I sing from the rooftops about which has been so very helpful to me is about Surviving the breakup with a pwBPD. As you've had more than one, you may find this as helpful as I did. It talks about the ten beliefs that can keep us stuck and helps to explain the dynamics at play which cause us to have difficulty detaching. I'd highly recommend this one. Hope it is helpful. https://bpdfamily.com/content/surviving-break-when-your-partner-has-borderline-personality (https://bpdfamily.com/content/surviving-break-when-your-partner-has-borderline-personality) When you are ready to share more of your story, we're listening. It can be helpful to get it out and in a safe environment where you will be understood by others who have had similar experiences. Do let us know how best we can support you. Love and light x Title: Re: She is talking to aother guy Post by: Skip on July 28, 2017, 09:11:04 AM Can you tell us the back story.
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