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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Seafairer on August 07, 2017, 10:28:46 AM



Title: Never did this before
Post by: Seafairer on August 07, 2017, 10:28:46 AM
Hi, I'm new to this situation. I just discovered that BPD is a real thing. My wife is in a relationship with an old friend of mine now and when I spoke to her, she said she doesn't want to get divorced but wants to be with him. I have no idea where this is going... .




Title: Re: Never did this before
Post by: Woolspinner2000 on August 08, 2017, 05:23:58 AM
Welcome!

Thank you for sharing a bit about what is going on in your life. It sounds like you are in a difficult place right now. Do you suspect your wife has BPD? What types of behavior have caused you to suspect this?

I can only imagine the unsettledness you must be experiencing with the news she dropped on you.  What types of feelings are you experiencing? I think that anyone would be struggling to know what to do with this news.

 
Wools