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Title: Tools to deal with BPD ex with co-parenting Post by: exhausted2017 on August 31, 2017, 11:04:27 PM BPD ex continually fabricates stories of me, calls me bad person, trys to prevent me from being involved in my child's events, got us kicked out of co-parent counseling, says will file for motion to modify (recent Judgment 6 months ago) with a gardian ad litem, and the list goes on. I'm not feeding into the drama and continuing to be civil. Anyone going through this similar situation and any advice is welcome.
Title: Re: Tools to deal with BPD ex with co-parenting Post by: livednlearned on September 03, 2017, 07:36:32 AM Oh wow, got you kicked out of coparenting
What happened? How old is your child, and what is your current custody order like? If there is a specific interaction you'd like some feedback about, share away. Most of us have been in the trenches and can relate to what you're going through. LnL Title: Re: Tools to deal with BPD ex with co-parenting Post by: soundofmusicgirl on September 03, 2017, 07:18:31 PM exhausted2017 welcome to the club. How old is your child and what is your current custody arrangement? Are you trying to co-parent? Some people here have found that parallel parenting is the only way to go for them.
Also, I don't know where you live, but I know that in "our" state you can't file for a modification for 2 years unless there is a significant change in circumstances. Of course that does not stop a BPD to find reasons to drag you to court. My DH is always very civil with his BPDxw. But sometimes I am mad that she can behave like a maniac and have no consequences follow and we have to be the reasonable once. |