Title: BPD Wife Post by: Chillseeker on October 02, 2017, 12:08:26 PM HI, I have a wife with BPD and im not coping very well, i have been through 3.5 years of emotional abuse and only found out lately about the condidtion and that she has it, and i should not take her abuse personaly, but alot of damage has been done, and going home is sometime torture... .where do i start? what do i learn?
Title: Re: BPD Wife Post by: Mutt on October 03, 2017, 07:22:49 PM Hi Chillseeker,
*welcome* I'd like to welcome you to bpdfamily. I'm sorry that you're going through a difficult time. I'm glad that you decided to join us, you're not a lone. I can relate with feeling like you're walking on landmines when you enter your family home at the end of the work day. A good place to start is by telling us what are the current issues? PS You'll find the lessons on the right side of the board :) |---> |