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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: adoptivemama on October 18, 2017, 01:52:55 PM



Title: BPD Daughter (19) and her Boyfriend
Post by: adoptivemama on October 18, 2017, 01:52:55 PM
Anyone have experience with a teen daughter who is BPD and who is abusing her boyfriend? I don't know whether to talk to the parents of this poor innocent boy who is putting up with way too much abuse!


Title: Re: BPD Daughter (19) and her Boyfriend
Post by: wendydarling on October 18, 2017, 03:22:56 PM
Hi adoptivemama 

How is she abusing him,? We can help you work through. 

WDx 


Title: Re: BPD Daughter (19) and her Boyfriend
Post by: adoptivemama on November 16, 2017, 09:45:02 PM
She tests him by saying things like "I'm ugly" or "I'm overweight" and he will try to reassure her, but he won't say what she wants him to say exactly right, so she will cuss him out and reject him, and then she regrets it and begs for forgiveness.