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Title: As Hall & Oats sang: "... shes gone" Post by: darkside0127 on October 31, 2017, 02:18:30 PM Had a close friend with BPD and she no longer will talk or communicate with me. I'm trying to either try to find a way to get her to talk to me or walk away. It's harder than I thought.
Title: Re: As Hall & Oats sang: "... shes gone" Post by: Lucky Jim on October 31, 2017, 03:22:53 PM Hey darkside, Welcome! I doubt that you are going to find a way to "get her to talk" to you, because her behavior is beyond your control. When in doubt, I suggest you consult the Serenity Prayer. Instead of walking away, you might want to consider just holding your place in space, neither retreating nor attacking. Does that make sense?
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