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Title: wow... Post by: azby on November 07, 2017, 03:40:46 PM I've been reading all these threads about BPD... .and it gives me some sense of comfort.
I literally thought that I was losing my mind -- that I was crazy and had significant problems. I still don't feel comfortable writing about too much, but I opened this account in the event I decide to share. My BPD girlfriend is/was amazing. Right? It was perfect and it is perfect chaos. Title: Re: wow... Post by: Lucky Jim on November 07, 2017, 04:12:18 PM Hey azby, Welcome! You've come to the right place. We get it when it comes to BPD. No, you're not crazy. BPD can cause profound problems for all concerned. Fill us in when you are ready.
LuckyJim Title: Re: wow... Post by: Mutt on November 09, 2017, 07:56:41 PM Hi azby,
*welcome* I can relate with your statement. I recall st one point I thought that I was losing my mind because nothing that I tried worked and I was always the problem been in the r/s. It was very frustrating and deslressing when you keep trying and trying and your partner can’t see the enormous effort that your putting into the r/s. It’s heartbreaking seeming someone being destructive towards the r/s and you watch the whole thing fall apart in from my of you. I tried to figure what was wrong by asking my friends and family and i got some strange looks and the advice was sound you just apply to a r/s with a pwBPD. I had zero knowledge about BPD and I feel ridiculous for says g this today but it was very real to me when I was going through it - I thought that I was going through something unique that nobody else was going through. I felt a lot of joy when I was lurking these boards and reading through posts sand thinking wow a lot of these members went through the exact same thing I went through. You’re not alone. |