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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: demolishedheart on November 14, 2017, 11:44:23 PM



Title: My fiancé has left me abruptly
Post by: demolishedheart on November 14, 2017, 11:44:23 PM
My fiancé left me abruptly and won’t talk to me.  She is also bipolar.


Title: Re: My fiancé has left me abruptly
Post by: pearlsw on November 15, 2017, 05:11:38 AM
Hi demolishedheart,

Welcome to the family here, but sorry to hear this news! I can only imagine this was a painful shock for you. Has this happened before with her? Does she tend to push/pull you?

Your fiancé has BPD and is also bipolar?  How are you feeling? Can you provide more details as to what happened?

take care, pearlsw.


Title: Re: My fiancé has left me abruptly
Post by: AskingWhy on November 15, 2017, 03:13:22 PM
demolishedheart, I am so sorry about this.

The best advice I can give is to not take it personally.  This is not about you but about her.

This is one of the hardest things in a relationship with a person with PDs.  They don't function emotionally like the nons.

Please don't blame yourself for this.