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Title: looking forward to a new way of looking at things Post by: humbled1 on November 20, 2017, 11:22:08 AM I suspect my spouse has a relationship disability that keeps him from participating in any but superficial conversations in a meaningful way. I hope I will be able to learn to think about things in a way that allows me to function and interact in a way that works for me. I definitely want to become proactive rather than reactive.
Title: Re: looking forward to a new way of looking at things Post by: virtualfriday on November 20, 2017, 01:33:31 PM You sound like myself a short time ago.
My first clue that we had a real relationship issue was me becoming aware that many of our conflicts and fights were not logical in nature. I then noticed that attempts to resolve small issues with typical logical thought and conversation had the opposite effect, It was like I was trying to control a fire and someone put gas in the fire extinguisher I was using. Title: Re: looking forward to a new way of looking at things Post by: Tattered Heart on November 22, 2017, 10:47:18 AM Welcome humbled1,
*welcome* Sorry that you've noticed there seems to be little depth in your relationship. Can you share a little more about what has been going on? |