Title: Support Post by: Bohica62 on December 16, 2017, 07:52:23 AM My ex suffers BPD with narcissistic overlay she has left me another man. Our relationship for 3 years was turbulent. I have been lied to, cheated on, and stolen from. Yet I would take her back in a heartbeat. What is wrong with me?
Title: Re: Support Post by: Mutt on December 16, 2017, 10:25:36 AM Hi Bohica62,
*welcome* From my perspective I’ve been depressed for most of my adult life, I wasn’t treating it so when I met my mom exuBPDw the idealization felt like an antidepressant I felt alive. The spots in our r/s where I was split white gradually became shorter and the time in between these periods became more distant from each other until I was completely split black. Not knowing better at the time I was waiting for that wonderful woman that I first met to return. I thought that might my exuBPDw was going through a phase. That’s a reason why I kept looking past all of the horrible treatment. Plus it’s not easy to break up when you have a family together it’s complicated. |