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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Bohica62 on December 16, 2017, 07:52:23 AM



Title: Support
Post by: Bohica62 on December 16, 2017, 07:52:23 AM
My ex suffers BPD with narcissistic overlay she has left me another man. Our relationship for 3 years was turbulent. I have been lied to, cheated on, and stolen from. Yet I would take her back in a heartbeat. What is wrong with me?


Title: Re: Support
Post by: Mutt on December 16, 2017, 10:25:36 AM
Hi Bohica62,

*welcome*

From my perspective I’ve been depressed for most of my adult life, I wasn’t treating it so when I met my mom exuBPDw the idealization felt like an antidepressant I felt alive.

The spots in our r/s where I was split white  gradually became shorter and the time in between these periods became more distant from each other until I was completely split black. Not knowing better at the time I was waiting for that wonderful woman that I first met to return. I thought that might my exuBPDw was going through a phase.

That’s a reason why I kept looking past all of the horrible treatment. Plus it’s not easy to break up when you have a family together it’s complicated.