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Title: Haven't heard from her all day... Post by: Emotions on January 17, 2018, 05:50:16 PM Hello all, I have recently been talking to my ex BPD again... .as you may know this can mean quite a bit some days. Spent a lot of time on FaceTime and even have visited her 3 times... .we have been rekindling our friendship, and it has been mostly positive. I do feel like the days are going faster than when we weren't speaking, so I'm trying to figure out what is best, and my theory at the moment is to let nature take its course with us, and accentuate the positive of either outcome... .I am posting because I haven't heard from her all day today, and this is odd based on how we have been connecting lately. She did just get a new job and she works late hours, but I'm curious at this point as to why she hasn't called or texted... .anyway just need to connect with my BPD family as I'm sure a lot of you may experience similar curiosities from time to time, and I'm just hoping for encouraging words of wisdom or just a keep moving from someone... .thanks, peace
Title: Re: Haven't heard from her all day... Post by: Cat Familiar on January 17, 2018, 06:41:52 PM Are you recycling or hoping for a recycle?
Title: Re: Haven't heard from her all day... Post by: Lucky Jim on January 18, 2018, 04:13:37 PM I wouldn't project too much here about what it means that you haven't heard from her today. Instead, I suggest that you relax and assume that she's having a busy day at her new job. I'm sure you'll hear from her at some point. Perhaps you could take your own advice, as follows:
Excerpt my theory at the moment is to let nature take its course with us, and accentuate the positive of either outcome... . Keep us posted! LuckyJim |