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Title: Is he playing mind games or What? Post by: Confused1017 on February 05, 2018, 09:24:12 PM Hello All,
I hope everyone had a good weekend. :). I have been seeing a guy who I’m positive has BPD- he displays A lot of the signs. He used to act so attached to me, cried once when he thought I may stop dating him. I’ve never seen a man cry like that before over a dating situation... .! Fast forward 7 or so months, it’s been like an up and down roller coaster. He used to act like he liked me aLoT- then he started being distant... .he would still want to spend lots of time with me, his daughter and my daughter Too. If we were Alone, he wanted to spend lots of time with me as well. Now, we got pregnant unexpectedly! It was a total surprise and Shock for Both Of Us. At first he really freaked out and was Really Mean to me. He kept saying he is “only here for the baby” and “his heart is not in this”- meaning, with me. And the last week and a half, he has suddenly been really sweet with me- taking me out to the movies, he made me dinner tonight at his place, but he told me that we are “just friends”. He still however tries to get me to sleep with him when we are alone most of the time. And I’ve caught him staring at me Many Many Times. I once even woke up at night (I was half asleep, but something made me open my Eyes) , and I cAught Him Staring at Me in my SLEEP! Title: Re: Is he playing mind games or What? Post by: Confused1017 on February 05, 2018, 09:49:03 PM Mind games? And I’m pregnant « Sent to: Confused1017 on: Today at 09:43:28 PM » Reply with quoteQuote ReplyReply Remove this messageRemove Continued from above**. So, this past week and a half, he has been very nice, when before he was being nasty and mean to me, when he found out about the pregnancy. I told him. As I said, it was a shock to both of us- not planned. I’m scared just like he is, but I was never mean or rude to him over this. He has been inviting me out to spend time with him (alone and with his daughter) - he has even asked me to bring my daughter too, if I’m with her (her father and I co-parent). He made me dinner tonight- he asked me to stop by his place after work, so he could have dinner with me and the baby. But when I was getting ready to leave, after dinner, to go pick up my toddler/daughter, he stated that we were “just friends”. And that he supposedly didn’t want to lead me on. He usually tries to have sex with me when we are alone- how is that “just friends” - he got me pregnant too?... ! I just don’t understand what is going on in his MIND! ANY Help and/or guidance would be greatly appreciated. I never met anytime like him Before! Thank you, Confused |