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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Tamsyn on February 10, 2018, 12:51:15 PM



Title: Not knowing What To Say
Post by: Tamsyn on February 10, 2018, 12:51:15 PM
Hello,
I have recently separated from my husband, due to years of verbal and emotional abuse. I am now learning that it wasn't me that had a mental problem, it was my husband. I have 3 children,  we share the parenting.


Title: Re: Not knowing What To Say
Post by: Mutt on February 10, 2018, 05:53:29 PM
Hi Tamsyn, 

*welcome*

Id like to welcome you to bpdfamily. I’m sorry to hear that. I bet that you felt isolated and confused with your H’s behaviour. Start anywhere’s many of us can relate with you, i completely understand I was with my ex for almostb8 years and it wasn’t until seperated that I heard about BPD. You’re not alone.
 
How old are the kids? How are they doing? Are you managing?



Title: Re: Not knowing What To Say
Post by: Turkish on February 11, 2018, 12:43:17 AM
Hi Tamsyn,

I'd like to join Mutt in welcoming you here.

Is there a legal custody agreement? How can we help?

T