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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Runaway on March 13, 2018, 11:01:33 AM



Title: New here— I feel like I had no choice but to run.
Post by: Runaway on March 13, 2018, 11:01:33 AM
Just doing my intro. I need all the help I can get. I feel like I had no choice but to run. I cannot go back home because the abuse will continue. Starting over at age 66 and I am waiting for the other shoe to fall. Thanks for being here.


Title: Re: Thank you
Post by: JNChell on March 13, 2018, 01:12:24 PM
 
Hi Runaway! And welcome. I’m sorry that you’ve been enduring abuse. It sounds like you’re taking proper steps to remove yourself from the situation. If you’re comfortable in doing so, can you give us a little more insight into your situation? This can better help the members and staff here to understand your situation better. We’ve also found that opening up communication here can be helpful to other members that may be going through a similar situation. We’re glad you found us.


Title: Re: New here— I feel like I had no choice but to run.
Post by: heartandwhole on March 13, 2018, 01:13:35 PM
Hi Runaway,

*welcome*

I’m sorry that you had to run away. When you can, tell us what happened.

You’ve found a great community that understands, and a safe place to work through this.

We’re here for you  

heartandwhole


Title: Re: New here— I feel like I had no choice but to run.
Post by: Insom on March 13, 2018, 01:14:08 PM
Hi, Runaway!  Welcome. 

It sounds like you're in crises mode trying to cope with a very difficult situation.    Hugs!  I know how hard it feels to remove yourself from an abusive partner.  Congratulations on taking a first step toward healing and reaching out!  We are here to listen. 

What is your current living situation?  Do you feel safe where you are right now?  Let us know how you're doing. 


Title: Re: New here— I feel like I had no choice but to run.
Post by: I Am Redeemed on March 13, 2018, 02:24:44 PM
Hi Runaway, 

I am so sorry you are experiencing this situation. I had to flee suddenly from an abusive marriage myself just under 4 months ago. I know this is an incredibly emotional and stressful time for you. We are here for you when you feel ready to post again. This website is a lifeline of support for me and I hope you will continue to come back and let us know how we can help.

Blessings and peace,

Redeemed


Title: Re: New here— I feel like I had no choice but to run.
Post by: Mutt on March 13, 2018, 03:39:38 PM
Hi Runaway,

*welcome*

I'd like to join the others and welcome you to the family. It takes courage to reach out and ask for help you're not alone and if you need help you've come to the right place. Can you give us a back story to best help you?