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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: Daytonagirl on March 16, 2018, 12:51:28 PM



Title: I think my adult child has BPD. I’ve had years of challenges.
Post by: Daytonagirl on March 16, 2018, 12:51:28 PM
I did not know about this. I'm just learning about this disorder. I have gone through many years of challenges and believe I have an adult child (undiagnosed) with this disorder.


Title: Re: I think my adult child has BPD. I’ve had years of challenges.
Post by: heartandwhole on March 16, 2018, 01:38:14 PM
Hi Daytonagirl,

*welcome*

Welcome to the community! You’ve come to the right place for support.  

I can understand having gone through many years of challenges. Members here understand what it’s like. Things can definitely get better, so I hope you will take advantage of all the resources and support on offer here.

What behaviors are causing the most difficulty right now, Daytonagirl?

Keep writing. This is a safe place to work through these challenges. We’re here to support you.

heartandwhole


Title: Re: I think my adult child has BPD. I’ve had years of challenges.
Post by: wendydarling on March 16, 2018, 02:10:00 PM
Hi Daytonagirl

I join heartandwhole in welcoming you to the community, I'm glad you found your way to and joined us here.    You are certainly not alone in not knowing about this    I did not either, how are you feeling?

Many members children here are 'undiagnosed' and make personal progress here with support of us members and use of the tools and resources here.

Hope and small steps.

WDx




Title: Re: I think my adult child has BPD. I’ve had years of challenges.
Post by: Feeling Better on March 16, 2018, 04:48:50 PM
Hi Daytonagirl, I too would like to welcome you. You have definitely come to the right place to find information about BPD and to get support from fellow members.

Like you I’d never heard of BPD before but once I started to find out more about it I came to realise that my son probably has traits. He is in denial and blames his family for all his problems.

We are here for you Daytonagirl, whenever or if you feel like sharing a little bit more x