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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: anon156 on April 18, 2018, 07:22:00 PM



Title: violence and alcohol
Post by: anon156 on April 18, 2018, 07:22:00 PM
we were both drunk, to drunk

id had a rough day with her and was already stressed

she began an argument and wound me up


i reacted badly, with violence... i am no longer staying in our house but with my mother

i feel so ashamed, so sad, i miss her terribly. we might be over for good this time

i dont know what to do, my eyes are welling up as i type this

things have been going good for quite a while, no fights or arguments. i feel like ive ruined everything

i miss her so much already, she hates me


Title: Re: violence and alcohol
Post by: Tattered Heart on April 19, 2018, 09:17:50 AM
Hi anon,

I'm sorry for your sadness at breaking up. What happened in the argument? Is this the first time you've ever become violent with her? Are you still talking or is she NC?