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Title: Shortly after we married he became a different person Post by: cynderlady on April 21, 2018, 02:22:09 PM Hello,
I want to learn more about BPD and NPD. I have searched a long time for someone or a group where I can find answers and guidance. I have been trying to make sense of the life I now have for many years. I met, fell in love with a wonderful man and married him. Shortly after we married he became a different person, distant, unloving, difficult and more. I didn't understand and keep trying to find a link to the man I met and fell in love with. Years later I am still looking. Why did I stay? I stayed because I loved him and thought the man I met would emerge. It is all very confusing so this is all I have at the moment. I also think with what I have been through and as I learn here in the long run maybe I will be able to help someone else who is going down a similar path. Thanks, Cynderlady Title: Re: Intro Post by: juju2 on April 22, 2018, 12:13:35 AM Hi,
You are in the right place. There is a lot of experience here. Healing, help are here. How long have you been married. Is your spouse diagnosed, you can share as much as you feel comfortable sharing. This is a safe place. j Title: Re: Intro Post by: Struggler123 on April 22, 2018, 12:25:20 AM Hello, I want to learn more about BPD and NPD. I have searched a long time for someone or a group where I can find answers and guidance. I have been trying to make sense of the life I now have for many years. I met, fell in love with a wonderful man and married him. Shortly after we married he became a different person, distant, unloving, difficult and more. I didn't understand and keep trying to find a link to the man I met and fell in love with. Years later I am still looking. Why did I stay? I stayed because I loved him and thought the man I met would emerge. It is all very confusing so this is all I have at the moment. I also think with what I have been through and as I learn here in the long run maybe I will be able to help someone else who is going down a similar path. Thanks, Cynderlady Welcome to the forum. There are numerous guides here. I wrote this one guide https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=324260.0 It can better help you understand, some of the everyday situations you are facing. Heal yourself, but never explain yourself. Title: Re: Intro Post by: cynderlady on April 22, 2018, 07:14:09 PM Hi JuJu,
Title: Re: Shortly after we married he became a different person Post by: Tattered Heart on April 26, 2018, 10:15:14 AM Hi cynderlady,
Welcome *welcome* I'm sorry to hear that things have been difficult for you. Can you share a little more about what has been going on in your relationship? |