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Title: Why am I so fearful of walking away. Post by: molarman on April 25, 2018, 10:21:27 AM Why am I so fearful of walking away. I see traits in both of us. I am at least willing to acknowledge my contributions. She continues to blame me for everything. She gets on me when I "raise my voice" but she can scream at the top of her lungs and that is OK. How do I know what is me? What is her? and what is us? I am so lost. Just trying to make things better but feel like I am all alone in the effort
Title: Re: Why am I so fearful of walking away. Post by: Woolspinner2000 on April 25, 2018, 09:10:03 PM Hi molarman,
I'm so sorry for how hard this is. Seems next to impossible at times I bet. There are some helpful tips in this article A 3 Minute Lesson on Ending Conflict (https://bpdfamily.com/content/ending-conflict). What types of things are you trying to do already to decrease the intensity? Wools |