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Title: No Contact and good with that Post by: Pina colada on May 12, 2018, 04:10:25 PM I am not over my sisters abuse, but I will say when she cut me off in December, it was the best thing she could have done. I used to spend negative energy reading posts (mostly exaggerations and lies) about me and our family on a conduct disorders forum. I haven't read her stuff in a while and don't think I ever will again. If another mentions something to me, that is fine. I am through expending negative energy on my sister. She doesn't deserve any kind of space in my brain... .I finally except she was the never the person I thought she was. I except she will never be a part of my life ( or my family). She can write and do and say as she pleases. The truth is, if she is not in my life now, she has no idea what I am up to or thinking. She doesn't really know me and never did. Just posting and curious if others have had their "aha" moment and how they feel about it. I am not as sad as I thought I would be. I only mourn the sister that never was... .
Title: Re: No Contact and good with that Post by: Panda39 on May 12, 2018, 07:54:08 PM Radical Acceptance... .that's what I'm hearing
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