Title: Mother's day on Facebook Post by: todayistheday on May 13, 2018, 06:47:13 PM I'll be glad when tomorrow gets here. I thought it was hard to look at Facebook during the political season seeing all the meanness from both sides.
But looking the past few days had just made me sad. I am childless and mom is so difficult. This year more than most. I used to call myself child free. But not the case. I never had any for fear of causing another human being the hurt that I felt throughout my childhood. When I learned about BPD and that I did not have to be that way I was too old to have children. And no, I don't plan to adopt. There are more reasons than biology that people I'm their 50s shouldn't raise children. I haven't the energy for them now. Still, it's a sad day for many of us when we see all the love. I was an adult before it ever hit me that some mothers and children actually liked each other. Title: Re: Mother's day on Facebook Post by: Turkish on May 13, 2018, 09:37:44 PM I hear you about Facebook. I had to refrain from commenting on something yesterday that could have been construed as negative. I scanned through after reading your post and was happy to see a few things by or to people I know are good mom's. My attitude today was a bit better than yesterday.
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