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My daughter has BPD.  The latest struggle has left me feeling lost.  She made improvements and was deemed ready to returns to public school and a less restricted facility m-f and comes home on weekends.  I know episodes will come and go but the last emotional situation she jumped out of the car and called the police on me and ceased speaking to me.  I waited for the police & no charges were filed.  The facility wants me to take her home like usual but refuses to assist me with talking through the situation. They tell me your the parent talk to her bit she refuses my call, curses me out.  I've called her therapist, psychitrist & no one is able to assist.  I don't know what to do. I am a single parent, and I have her brother to look after as well. I wish I knew how to facilitate a conversation to work through this last episode.

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It's very difficult to deal with BPD.
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-C

https://www.verywellmind.com/support-empathy-truth-set-for-borderline-personality-425229

This link above, talks about using S.E.T. ^^^

Hello Ms.G123456,

I would like to join Circle in welcoming you here, I am so sorry to hear of what you are going through.

You say your daughter has BPD, can you tell us, has she received a diagnosis?

How old is your daughter?

As Circle says, you will find many resources here, you can find them to the right  |--->

Under the TOOLS heading, you will see ‘Don’t React, Respond with S.E.T. reading through this may help you get started in communicating with your daughter in a healthier way. Please come back and let us know how you get on with it, we are here for you, to help and support you wherever we can.