Title: New adult with adult sibling BPD Post by: Trish1234 on May 22, 2018, 04:57:20 PM Hello, I am an adult whose sister seems to have BPD and/or NPD. She has cut all contact with our family and blames most of her real and perceived misfortunes on others. I am currently the primary target of her anger. I am simultaneously relieved she is not speaking with me, while extremely concerned about her well being. Looking forward to learning more here.
Title: Re: New adult with adult sibling BPD Post by: Turkish on May 22, 2018, 07:35:46 PM What are her real life misfortunes and how does NPD fit into the story?
Title: Re: New adult with adult sibling BPD Post by: Harri on May 23, 2018, 10:52:10 AM Hi Trish and welcome. It is difficult when we feel so torn about protecting ourselves and caring for someone with BPD.
What sort of behaviors has your sister targeted you with? What sorts of things to you do to protect yourself? How do you handle any attacks? Please do share more of your story. We can all understand at least some of what you are experiencing if not more. We also have a huge library of articles that we can refer you to if you think that would be helpful. |