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Title: Introduction: How do I not trigger her? Post by: Moishe on May 24, 2018, 05:29:46 PM ! I have been with my SO w/BPD for almost 4 years. I need help with her cycling of her emotions, push me away, want me back, rages, anger, abusive behavior ( mostly verbal) and emotional. Things are going poorly now as she got angry at me once again and currently is in a no contact mode. I'm here to get help from those in situations like mine. Even after 4 years i have not been able to " get a handle" on how not to trigger her and go through the above mentioned behaviors. Any advice/help is greatly appreciated.
Title: Re: Introduction: How do I not trigger her? Post by: pearlsw on May 24, 2018, 05:48:48 PM Hi Moishe,
*welcome* Sorry to hear of your struggles, but glad to have you with us! This is a great place to receive and give support to others in tough situations! These two areas of the site might be a good place to start! The Do’s and Don’ts of a BPD Relationship (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=62266.0) SET (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=143695.0) Can you tell us more about this most recent fight that led to the silent treatment? Does the silent treatment happen often? with compassion, pearl. |