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Title: just realizing this is happening Post by: bloodbought on May 30, 2018, 09:46:49 AM Hello,
I am just now realizing after 24 years of a rocky marriage that this could be the root issue and I don't know how to deal with this new realization. Title: Re: just realizing this is happening Post by: kells76 on May 30, 2018, 09:58:45 AM Hi bloodbought, glad you found the site. It sounds like you've been through a lot -- over two decades of a rough marriage, and now maybe a lot of pieces are falling into place. You're wondering if your spouse might have BPD. Tough question; I don't think anyone knows how to deal with that right off the bat.
Want to keep talking about it? Can we help with some more questions? kells76 Title: Re: just realizing this is happening Post by: Panda39 on May 30, 2018, 10:50:21 AM Hi bloodbought,
I'd like to join kells and say Welcome I'm on these boards because my significant other (SO) has an undiagnosed BPD ex-wife. I can tell you when I first found out about BPD, I hit my local library and read everything they had. It really helped me to get a good grounding in what BPD is. Here are a couple books I found to be particularly good if you are interested in reading more about it... . Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder by Randi Kreiger and Overcoming Borderline Personality Disorder: A Family Guide for Healing and Changeby Valerie Porr, M.A. What types of things have you seen in your spouse that lead you to BPD? Panda39 |