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Title: New here: Don't know if this is worth fighting for Post by: redlily on August 15, 2018, 10:33:05 AM have no idea where to begin. I'm currently listening to Stop Walking on Eggshells. I don't know if this is worth fighting for any longer and I'm tired and overwhelmed
Title: Re: new here Post by: juju2 on August 15, 2018, 03:29:04 PM Welcome!
You are in the right place. Maybe you will feel comfortable in sharing more about your story. This is a caring, helpful community. j Title: Re: new here Post by: Cat Familiar on August 15, 2018, 04:06:58 PM Hi redlily,
:hi: You're name is so evocative of a beautiful flower. Yes, dealing with a partner who has BPD can be totally exhausting. I know. I came here in crisis a few years ago. But now things are great. We almost never have conflicts and when one arises, I now know how to speak his language and not trigger him further--something I had no clue about at first. I'm a very logical thinker and he's a very emotional feeler, but highly intelligent. When I first came here I couldn't understand why all my logical interventions with him made things worse. Now I know. I wasn't speaking in the language of emotions. Please take some time, read the side bar and look through this site--there's a ton of information. It's great that you're listening to Eggshells. It will give you a good overview. How can we help you? Cat Title: Re: new here Post by: RolandOfEld on August 22, 2018, 02:14:41 AM Hi redlily, let me join everyone in welcoming you here!
Seems like it's been a while since your initial post. Please update us on your situation when you have the time to let us know how you are doing. Looking forward to hearing more of your story. Sending you strength, RolandOfEld Title: Re: new here Post by: Red5 on August 22, 2018, 11:40:08 AM Hello redlily!
Welcome!, you have found a good and safe place to come to, and learn... .and relate!... .can you tell us more about what is going on in your relationship. There are many here who are walking the exact same path as you, so you are certainly not alone, .there is a good degree of peace of mind that can be gained, .by writing it all out here, and have others compare, and share their stories as well. Again, welcome ! Love your call sign by the way! Red5 |