BPDFamily.com

Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Wickit on August 17, 2018, 06:02:07 AM



Title: What a b#@# my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
Post by: Wickit on August 17, 2018, 06:02:07 AM
Hi all,

I recently head this song and it left me in tears. After watching the video i was litteraly flabbergasted. This song is definately about a BPD relationship. It's like the video was shot in my house.

Please share your thoughts.


Date: 8-2016(https://bpdfamily.com/book-covers/spacer.gif)Minutes:  3:25
Made to Love You [Music Video] - Dan Owen


Title: Re: What a b#@# my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
Post by: Skip on August 17, 2018, 06:57:26 AM
I'd love to read a lot of details, because the BPD traits often manifest themselfs in the smallest things. I'm writing my story to post here as we speak, and the details make me understand and realize what a b*tch my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).

 :hi:  Tell us what happened!


Title: Re: What a b#@# my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
Post by: Enabler on August 17, 2018, 08:17:13 AM
WOW... .yes... .WOW... .speechless

Here when you're ready


Title: Re: What a b#@# my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
Post by: Mutt on August 18, 2018, 05:42:16 PM
Who's choice was it to go NC? How did this other person enter the picture? As others have said fill us in, I'm interested in hearing your story. Hang in there.


Title: Re: What a b#@# my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
Post by: spero on August 19, 2018, 12:27:53 PM
Hi there Wickit, *hi*

Hi all,

I recently head this song and it left me in tears. After watching the video i was litteraly flabbergasted. This song is definately about a BPD relationship. It's like the video was shot in my house.


I'm sorry that watching this video has brought back some rather unpleasant things, and its making you feel terrible.
Were the scenes playing in this video similar to what you've experienced? Takecare and go slow, we're here to listen ya.

Yours,
Spero.


Title: Re: What a b#@# my uBPDxgf actually was (or could be).
Post by: BasementDweller on August 20, 2018, 05:02:31 PM
Jesus, that was so sad. I'm probably a little too fresh and raw in my break-up to have really watched that, but it gives a good perspective. It shows the fragile side of the BPD person, and how hard it is as the non to not want to protect them, even when they are causing pain. Watching her hit him while he just stood there and took it was gut-wrenchingly painful to see.