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Title: BPD husband and dealing with his borderline rage
Post by: Hufflepuff on August 19, 2018, 11:15:30 PM
Some times we go a few days without a rage incident but then one happens and it sets everyone back and we (the family including the dog)  all disengage with him which just feeds into his abandonment fears.


Title: Re: BPD husband and dealing with his borderline rage
Post by: once removed on August 20, 2018, 03:04:15 AM
*welcome*

what happened with the latest rage incident? how long have the two of you been married?


Title: Re: BPD husband and dealing with his borderline rage
Post by: pearlsw on August 20, 2018, 04:42:31 AM
Hi Hufflepuff,

Sounds like you are all having a really hard time! Sorry to hear you are feeling the effects of your partner's rage. What does he say when he is so upset? What seems to set him off?

wishing you peace, pearl.


Title: Re: BPD husband and dealing with his borderline rage
Post by: Chosen on August 20, 2018, 08:52:45 PM
Hi Hufflepuff.

So sorry you have to deal with your BPDh's rages.  What happened that triggered his rage? 
My uBPDh rages too when he dysregulates, and it's scary and not fun at all.  I feel you!

Chosen