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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Parent, Sibling, or In-law Suffering from BPD => Topic started by: Graffiti on August 30, 2018, 01:33:46 PM



Title: Hi... my mom has untreated BPD
Post by: Graffiti on August 30, 2018, 01:33:46 PM
My mom was banned from visiting here but I let her come for a week just recently. You know the rest


Title: Re: Hi... my mom has untreated BPD
Post by: Harri on August 30, 2018, 09:03:35 PM
Hi Graffiti and welcome to the board.  I am glad you found us.

Can you tell us a bit more?  Why did you ban your mother from visiting and why did you then allow her to do so?  Were there specific events tied to these actions?  What sorts of behaviors so she exhibit that make you think she is, I assume, a pwPD (person with BPD)?

Tell us more, share, get comfortable.  Chances are we can relate to a lot of wha tyou may share.


Title: Re: Hi... my mom has untreated BPD
Post by: Learning2Thrive on August 30, 2018, 10:34:29 PM
My mom was banned from visiting here but I let her come for a week just recently. You know the rest

*welcome* Graffiti

I’m not sure if I understand correctly. Did you ban your mom from visiting you at some point in the past? How long ago did you decide to do that?

You said you allowed her to visit for a week. And things didn’t go well? Can you give us a little more insight into what went wrong?

How long ago did this last blowup happen?

What kind of relationship would you like to have with your mom?

What areas would you like us to help with?

L2T