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Title: She thinks I am not telling the truth Post by: merkaba1 on November 10, 2018, 11:40:40 AM Hello,
This is my first post on here. I am engaged (at least I believe I am) to someone with BPD. We have been together for almost a year. The first few months were amazing and filled with lots of passion. She also has addictions or co occurring disorders. She went to rehab for a few months but immediately relapsed. She moved in with me shortly after that and has continued the spiral down. I have done my fair share of things during our relationship to hurt trust and have been doing all that I can to restore that trust. However, I am still being accused constantly of lying and not telling the truth. This mornings example, I was being accused of being apart of an occult group and practicing dark magic. I felt this was out of left field. How can I get her to believe I am living authentically and telling the truth? Title: Re: She thinks I am not telling the truth Post by: SherlockTheDog on November 10, 2018, 12:45:54 PM Hello, This is my first post on here. I am engaged (at least I believe I am) to someone with BPD. We have been together for almost a year. The first few months were amazing and filled with lots of passion. She also has addictions or co occurring disorders. She went to rehab for a few months but immediately relapsed. She moved in with me shortly after that and has continued the spiral down. I have done my fair share of things during our relationship to hurt trust and have been doing all that I can to restore that trust. However, I am still being accused constantly of lying and not telling the truth. This mornings example, I was being accused of being apart of an occult group and practicing dark magic. I felt this was out of left field. How can I get her to believe I am living authentically and telling the truth? Im going through the same thing, and tried and tried to tell her i was telling the truth, she kept not believing me so I've given up and need to move on. My feelings being denied is no longer acceptable. Title: Re: She thinks I am not telling the truth Post by: once removed on November 10, 2018, 12:54:34 PM hi merkaba1, and *welcome*
im glad you reached out, things sound like theyre rough going. so what happened since you moved in, and what are the primary conflicts in your relationship like? what was done that hurt trust? Title: Re: She thinks I am not telling the truth Post by: Euler2718 on November 10, 2018, 02:50:40 PM Wow. What my ex said usually was at least plausible. What's her explanation when u ask how she came to the dark arts conclusion?
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