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Title: Investing in my life
Post by: juju2 on November 11, 2018, 08:19:47 AM
Hi family,

some of you know am looking at changing my lifestyle, around big ticket item that i have in my life... .

if I change that, will have 25% more spendable money per month!

Am looking at investing that money in the stick market, something I enjoy.

 made a lot of money buying master card during its ipo... .so am looking at all the options.   Just looking at that helps me, feel like am getting myself back.

Hope all here have a wonderful day,

j


Title: Re: Investing in my life
Post by: juju2 on November 11, 2018, 08:29:31 AM
what i had done to myself, during the last ten yrs, was basically selling myself out, and now that i have some recovery, i see, none of that is necessary!

There are trains of circumstances, I launched, for no reason, other than my own undealt with childhood issues... .dysfunction in a very loving home... .my sister and i live on the same city, we reminisce, she and i both have childhood issues, and we have a loving background, etc.   All that happened is I never dealt w how things manifested in my life, that made me co dependent, etc.   When i met C.  I was a mixed bag of untreated stuff.   And all of that mixed bag, it's all quite common, and has tried and true recovery methods.   I am not a victim.


Bless all of you, thank you for listening. Thank you for the hope each of you generously share,
j


Title: Re: Investing in my life
Post by: gotbushels on November 12, 2018, 07:55:52 AM
juju2   :hi:

if I change that, will have 25% more spendable money per month!
25% more is a lot of money. Well done on working on your budget. I hope you make a wise decision.   


Title: Re: Investing in my life
Post by: JNChell on November 12, 2018, 08:13:33 AM
Hello, juju2. Congrats on increasing your wealth and good luck with growing it. I hope it all works out well for you.

Also, some comments from your post stuck out to me and I’d like to invite you over to the PSI (parent, sibling, in law) board for some reading and hopefully some new interactions with the members that frequent that board. I think you’ll find it helpful. Hope to see you there.