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Title: Recently separated Post by: Growingpebble on November 18, 2018, 12:08:54 AM Hi everyone, just recently separated from my spouse of 17 years, who I strongly suspect has BPD. I’m hoping to gain insight into how to move forward and coparent with him, while also setting appropriate boundaries. Thanks for reading.
Title: Re: Recently separated Post by: Turkish on November 18, 2018, 01:06:59 AM Hi Growingpebble,
*welcome* How long have you been separated, how old are you kids, and is there a custody order? Love to hear more and how best we can help. What do you feel are major issues at this point? Turkish Title: Re: Recently separated Post by: Insom on November 18, 2018, 11:09:32 AM Hi, Growingpebble :hi: Allow me to join Turkish in welcoming you.
I hear Boundaries and Setting Limits (https://bpdfamily.com/content/setting-boundaries) are a concern. Would you like to say more about what's feeling wrong to you? Title: Re: Recently separated Post by: JNChell on November 28, 2018, 10:48:31 PM Hey, Growingpebble. How are things going? We haven’t heard from you in a minute. Come on back and give us an update. Let’s continue the conversation.
Title: Re: Recently separated Post by: CryWolf on December 13, 2018, 09:20:18 AM Please update us when you can pebble
Title: Re: Recently separated Post by: Mutt on December 18, 2018, 09:30:45 AM Hi Growingpebble,
17 years is a long history is this your first separation? We have tools here that help with r/s (relationships) and communicating with a pwBPD if you're interested in that. If a r/s is not working it's a good idea to try a different strategy |