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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: toomanydogs on November 19, 2018, 04:37:10 PM



Title: STBX Has Moved Out of State
Post by: toomanydogs on November 19, 2018, 04:37:10 PM
I found out today my STBX has moved out of state. I don't know the implication of that.

My FIL has stopped cooperating with his lawyers, and it worries me that he may cut me off again. If STBX is out of state, the likelihood of his being jailed is fairly slim, and I'm wondering/worried that my FIL may go that route.

Lord, help me. These people would try the patience of Job.
TMD


Title: Re: STBX Has Moved Out of State
Post by: formflier on November 22, 2018, 07:22:05 AM

Don't overthink stuff... .

While it may be possible that the move out of state is for these purposes... .is it really "likely"?

Especially given he is a public figure of some sort (FIL).  At some point your L could switch to a more public strategy and now things are out in the open.

If you told me that you "knew" FIL was giving up his public persona and going into hiding... then perhaps something to worry about.

FF